When speaking to freshers at his university on the need to study and what is required for success, sleepless nights and all. He was asked by a student what he does to stay awake. To this he replied “I take responsibility”.
Taking responsibility is adopting the mindset that
- No one but you is responsible for your success.
- You are responsible for your failures.
Stop the blame game. I didn’t study the course of my choice because…, …because my father…, … Because my uncles are…
Newsflash; you are not the first in that situation and some people, however few they may be found a way out. So can you.
We have misused the quote “by the grace of God” people make plans saying “I will do… by God’s grace” but they don’t make serious efforts to make sure the plan works. They believe in their subconscious and wish to pass the notion over to the next person that if the plan does not work, then it must be a result of the grace of God in short supply. God said in his word, my grace is sufficient for you and my strength is made perfect in your weakness. Also, the Bible says that the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men.
So, if you base your plans on God’s grace and it doesn’t succeed, it’s not due to a grace deficit, rather the blame is on you. How can I be sure? After all I have no idea about all the effort you put into it. Well, God is faithful and if he says his grace is sufficient, then, the rest we can figure out.
His grace is always provided in more quantity than we ever need.
If it doesn’t succeed, it’s all you. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.
ENOUGH of the excuses.